A bully shoves your child on the playground. Should they stand down, or fight back? Most parents would teach their kid to ignore the bully, walk away, or get help. I say, fight back — and hear me out.
I love teaching and training Jiu-Jitsu, but I don’t always like coaching it in tournaments. Now, contrary to what you might think, this is not a pride thing. Some coaches really can’t stand to see their students lose in tournaments, and that is the problem. While we all want our students to win, it’s more important for them not to lose. Let me explain.